The most frequent question from my Tarot and Angel and Archangel reading clients is always the same: Why did my ex leave me?
Sometimes, the answer isn’t clear. I can tell you the truth by booking a personalized Tarot session with me (click the link to open my WhatsApp, or message +52 477 907 4380). In the meantime, you might not even be sure if a relationship still exists with the person who, until a few days ago, was your “sweetheart.” They simply vanished from the face of the Earth, the Solar System, and all Multiverses.
On rare occasions—though they are the few—your ex actually has the courage to tell you straight to your face:
It’s over.
However, in the social media era, the most common scenario is the cowardly ghosting. Suddenly, you can no longer see their Facebook, Instagram, or Threads; heck, they even disappeared from your LinkedIn!
But according to my card reading clients, the most traumatic part is that moment you can no longer see their profile picture on WhatsApp.
The maze of why did my ex leave me
And if you haven’t been blocked yet, or if you’ve entered that vicious cycle of being unblocked and blocked again ad infinitum… now they just leave you “on read.”
Or they ignore your messages.
All your calls go straight to voicemail.
Worse still: they might actually reply, but with one-word answers, being more apathetic and sharp than Roz, Mike Wazowski’s boss in Monsters, Inc., as if they were doing you a massive favor.
Excuses when they are no longer into you:
- I was busy.
- I got slammed with work.
- I had an emergency trip and couldn’t get data or Wi-Fi.
- My phone broke.
- My dog swallowed the charging cable.
But how is it possible?, you wonder. If we were sooo happy (or: somewhat happy, driving each other crazy, hating each other’s guts)…
The doubt won’t let you rest.
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Faced with this scenario, you always have the option to book an appointment with me to ask my Tarot cards in Leon, Gto., and get real clarity. But if you prefer to keep trying on your own, your other options usually look like this:
Trying to understand what happened
- Digital fatigue: Turning on your phone every five seconds until your finger gets tired, waiting for a simple “Hello” or a “What do you want now” that may never, ever arrive.
- Forensic analysis: Spending days or months reviewing texts, audios, signs, silences, and hints in their WhatsApp statuses, social media stories, videos, and YouTube shorts…
- The daisy game: Plucking petals to find out if they love you, love you not, loved you once, will love you never, I don’t know, maybe, perhaps, who knows.
- Internet “spells”: Instead of hiring a professional Magic service with me, you try homemade love ties or “honey jars,” like that one about smoking a cigarette so your ex “consumes themselves with love” for you.
The Result: You smoked the cigarette, the pack, a trailer full of tobacco… and nothing. The person shows no signs of life, and you almost ended up with emphysema!
Next steps on your spiritual path
You don’t have to go through this alone or in the dark. In my upcoming articles, I will reveal key insights for your process:
- How to recover from a romantic breakup.
- Why can’t you get over your ex yet? (The energetic cord).
- Signs that your ex will come back.
- What to do if your ex is already with someone new.
If you’re done asking yourself why did my ex leave me, contact me today. Let’s see together what my Tarot and the angels have to say about your specific situation, and whether that cycle should be closed, or if there is still a future between you.
Jéssica de la Portilla Montaño.
WhatsApp (+52) 477 907 4380.


