Ghosting: what it is, why they disappeared without a word, according to my Tarot
When they don’t even say goodbye to you…
Ghosting is such a modern term that your grandparents probably have no clue what it means. But you? You know it very well. It has happened to you — not once, but many, many times. And not just with an ex boyfriend or ex lover. Maybe it was a former friend who clearly said, or who didn’t say a single word but you understood it anyways: I’m done with you.
Or someone blocked you — a client, a coworker, a neighbor, a teacher… even the guy who sharpens knives, the street snack girl, or the sweet potato cart guy.
Do you want to know why they ghosted you?
Have you ever asked yourself: Why did my ex leave me?
A Tarot reading with me might help you to understand what really happened — and what intention was hiding behind the silence.
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But don’t you play the innocent, my friend. You’ve ghosted people too. A lot of them. Almost everyone:
Your aunts (because they gossip too much), your judgmental cousins, or that WhatsApp group that only sends prayers, good morning images, inspirational quotes, and random religious memes.
You don’t block dogs or cats though — just because they’d scratch and bite you.
Not just romantic relationships: friends, acquaintances, even family
Blocking or being blocked isn’t even the real issue. You can also ignore — and be ignored — through DMs, inbox messages, emails, SMS, or whatever new messaging system exists now.
https://facebook.com/eltarotmxYou can choose whether to read, reply, react, or pretend that you never saw anything on Facebook, Instagram, Threads, TikTok, Twitter, Reddit, Discord (still don’t get that one), or Twitch.
Blocking, ignoring, disappearing: the modern versions of ghosting
Back in the early 2000s, people ignored comments on MSN Spaces, Blogger, Blogspot, Metroflog, Yahoo! Groups, MSN Messenger, Hi5, or MySpace. Yes, I happened to be there.
And let’s not even start with dating apps — Tinder, Grindr, Facebook Dating, and whatever comes next to meet, unmeet, delete, and emotionally uninstall people from your life.
It doesn’t matter if that “something” with “someone” was across the world or across the street. One click, one block, and boom! — peace for you. Anxiety for them! Because sudden silence creates a void that hurts like hell.
👉 If someone blocked you, ignored you, or disappeared without a single explanation, my Tarot can reveal you whether if they felt fear, lack of interest, or if you lived a cycle that already ended.
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Ghosting on social media and dating apps
Before, you just called someone. And they still sent you straight to voicemail.
In the 90s, you left messages on answering machines. But the real gatekeeper back then? Your mom.
Latina moms were the original ghosting experts.
“Yes, they live here. Well… kind of. But they’re not home. Tomorrow? Probably not either. You better don’t call never, ever again.”
What it feels like when someone disappears without explanation
That’s ghosting. You’ve been on both sides of it.
The emotional impact on the person being ghosted can be brutal:
You wait for a single message. Days. Months. Sometimes, years.
Your life feels stuck on a pause.
Someone you loved or you desired was there… and now they’re gone.
Silence is an answer (even if we hate it)
We all ask ourselves the same things:
Did they lose signal?
Did they run out of data?
Is their Wi-Fi down?
They say that silence is an answer.
How my Tarot can help you to understand ghosting
If your ex — partner, friend, lover, or situationship — left you with more questions than answers, a Tarot session with me can help you to understand:
Why they left.
If they’ll reach out again.
If they still think about you.
What it means when you dream about someone you no longer talk to.
I’ll answer all of that — and more.
👉 Message me on WhatsApp and let’s see what this experience is trying to teach you.
Jéssica de la Portilla Montaño
WhatsApp (+52) 477 907 4380
